I had the privilege of going to MOMcon this year for the second time and I prayed that God would soften my heart about a few things that I had been struggling to understand. Have you ever been in a season of life where you had more questions than answers? My guess is you have. I’ve learned to embrace whatever season of life I’m in whether it be high or low or a mix of both. Sometimes it’s hard to see the good through the confusing and the hope in the unknowing but with an open heart, a pliable heart, ears to listen, and eyes to see – I know that I am being prepared and shaped for my next big step.
This season of life you’re in right now won’t last forever. You know that. It’s hard to believe that though, when in you’re in the midst of something hard. My mom always says, “This too shall pass,” and those words couldn’t be more true. Whatever you’re facing – a divorce, a marriage that is more work than enjoyment, a paycheck-to-paycheck kind of living, the loss of a loved one, the loss of a baby, the distance of a friendship or perhaps, the not knowing of what your purpose in life is are just seasons in your life that will come and go. When we don’t know what to do, we do the things that help us survive and that might look like overeating, not working out, overspending, gossiping…you get the idea. When what we should be doing is turning our eyes to the only one who can make sense of it all – Jesus.
The truth is – we all have a purpose. We were all made to love one another and if we can just remember those two things, we can begin to live again. I mean, really live again. We can wake up with a zest for life. We can choose to be intentional about loving our husbands. We can make that decision to be the person who lifts a sister up when all she really needs is a hug rather than a look.
This season of life you’re in, probably looks a lot like mine. We’re in the midst of child-rearing, car-pooling, and self-feeding. You’ve got this. Take that next small step and find truth in who you are in HIM and find pure joy in the fall, winter, spring, and summer of your life.